Today, 22 June 2005, is the third engagement anniversary of mine and my husband's (now I call him Abi since BabyHana calls him that way). We decided to be couple few months before, 22 October 2001. And we met each other in September. So, up until now, we have this togetherness for almost four years (with almost 2 years of marriage, wedding at 22 August 2003).

Well, being together that long, I have learned a lot about Abi. Some things in common and many differences. I think it richens us so much. We learn more about tolerence, understanding, human psychology, and many more. It's not easy but it's enjoyable. So many 'oh' and 'what?!' performed by my lips and mouth. So many smiles and laughs as well. His not being so romantic but extremely funny really changes my idea on how lovers should be. Love can be so fun, so cheerful. Seriousness is also necessary but it has to be in a good portion. I used to be extremely serious, you know. Hahaha...now, I am trying not to coz I could look 50 years older than my husband if I am.

Anyway, being together is so wonderful. No matter how your couple is (as long as he/she doesn't have an affair with another girl/boy), just enjoy your togetherness coz somehow someday there will be an end to everything.

Abi, I just want you to know that I LOVE YOU.

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yesterday babyhana was 1 year old, happy birthday, love...ur the sunshine in my universe.
the new family story

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Home - Office - Home is my weekday activity. So boring isn't it? I mean I adore stability but this kind of stability really gets on my nerve. I used to be a very active persons with many activities that could make me meet new people, new environment. Now, it's totally different. My life is all about my job and family.
Well, thankfully I have this gorgeous babyhana that I can play with. At least she is growing up, meaning that she is different everyday. The word stability so far is not listed in her dictionary.
Maybe, it's not my turn anymore to be unsteady. It's hers and I should be there to look after her so that her instability will do her good.
Hmmm...so, here I am, the stable mother for my active dazzling babyhana...love you so much, girl!

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She's no more My BabyHana, she's My Pretty Little Girl now!
the new family story

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Today I left my agenda at home. I thought I already put it in my bag but half way from home to the office, I realized that it was left. I hated it sooo much! I already wrote down important things to do today and organized what had to be done first and the next ones. I got to the office with an empty feeling. Hiks...
Then, I clicked the outlook icon. Some mails came in and I saw what I had posted in the calendar for some of the things to be done today. Well, some of them were not the ones I had written in my agenda.
Fiuh, then I just realized that i am too dependant on these stuffs, the outlook and my agenda. I don't have the dependancy on my memory. It's not good, is it? I mean, these equipments realy easen your life but it doesn't give you much chances to use your brain, your own memory. I was just thinking, should I just count on my memory instead of those easing-your-life equipments?
Such a big and kind of brave decision, isn't it? Well, the result is : NO. Yes,right, I keep my dependancy on the outlook and agenda. I realize that my memory is not the best one, maybe the size is not so big that I can install everything there. I guess I am just going to use it for the most important things in my life. All the daily stuffs will just belong to my outlook and agenda. Those things were created by smart people for the sake of human being, knowning the capacity of the human being, right? So, I think, using it will do no harm to my memory, let's just hope so, hope that in the next few years, the memory will still be good since I keep not so many things there. But I will try to use my brain effectively (will find out how :D).

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